It didn't happen overnight. I was on FarmersOnly for several months before I finally found the man for me. We have been together now for about 6 months and no sign of stopping. Just be careful out there and hang in there. Keep trying but relax and let it happen naturally. You have to weed through a lot of fakes and scammers. I got good at it. Watch out for anyone claiming to be a widow with one child or overseas and can't ever get home for some lame reason. Stick to men as local as possible. If they make too many excuses for not meeting you then something is up. A real interested man will want to meet with you before too long. I made a few friends too. I tried other sites but it seems there are less fakes here. Some good folks looking for a real relationship like I was. Good luck in your search.
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Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend