OurTime is a joke!
I'm a guy looking for a woman. An average joe.
I signed up for six months. I'm a sucker! So, the review is based on experience.
A limited amount of information on potentials. Limited to 140 characters. So, it's always a shot in the dark. Based on looks only. I fall short, haha. But then, so do the women!
Very few potentials actually available. The site will continue to post profile info even though the member is gone! You can tell by looking at your flirts sent. It will note when the member was last online. That could be 6 months ago! Most women never respond even if they are active. I guess they are not interested in me and I'm cool with that. It's a numbers game.
I live in a metro area. 600 matches are said to be available after setting the filters for slender/average, my age range +/- 5 years, Caucasian, any height...50 miles. Actually, about 30 are. The rest don't exist anymore! False and misleading, for sure! Out of the 30, I got one date!
Scammers continually send you flirts in order for you to send them your email or for you to contact them. OurTime does little to stop them.
As for dating sites. I get the impression women are simply window shopping. No one seems serious.
So much false info from women. "A few extra pounds" means obese in most cases.
Spend your money on a movie or two. It will be way better entertainment!
Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend