It's Just Lunch

I have had three dates since I signed up. All three wanted to see me again, so that is a testimony to Amy. Clearly, she chose women she thought would like me and would want to see me again, and so far her success rate is 100%.

My first two dates were lunches, each one was for around 2 hours. I enjoyed meeting these two ladies. These dates were helpful in giving me a better sense of the kind of romantic companion I am hoping to find.

The third date was a dinner. I surprised myself with my reaction to when she looked at her cellphone, said I have to take this, it's my son, and she texted her son. My reaction was, this is a massive turn-off for me, no. This reaction by me surprised me.

The quality of the three dates I have had is high. All three have a good attitude, are nice, and seem gentle, which is a key thing I am looking for in a potential romantic companion.

Length of Use: Less than 3 months

Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend

My experience so far has not been that great but the important thing that I find is that they are working really hard to find the members, meaning YOU, the opportunity to find the right person. It is not an easy task, I am sure.

I had a few dates, a very nice gentleman but unfortunately, I had not yet found the right chemistry.

I have another one soon and I hope this one works out. He seems like a very nice gentleman.

My representative now is Hazel. She is very very nice and is trying very hard to find me the right match.

Length of Use: 6–12 months

Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend

The experience hasn't been great. There has been a high turnaround with the matchmakers and I hear from them off and on, always someone different. I will say the last matchmaker, Joel, has been very good with follow-ups, very professional, and did a good job with the last person he set me up with.

Length of Use: 2+ years

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

I worked with Sarah V from IJL once I entered their database. I'm not currently a paying member, but I have gone on several dates with their service. I genuinely really like the service. I've always felt safe, taken care of, and I've had the dates planned and vetted before I've ever even met them.

All you really have to do is go through an interview process and background check (which makes me feel better about how they vet the men too vs. traditional dating app dating). Some of the men were duds, but Sarah is EXCELLENT at protecting me and protecting my privacy from the men I didn't like from the service.

I like that there's always a date, restaurant, time, and reservations booked prior. A lot of the back and forth/coordinating is pretty much taken care of on their end so all you really have to do is show up and have a good attitude.

Length of Use: 6–12 months

Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend

When I first started IJL I didn't have just one matchmaker. It was a rocky start. I had Lisa G at one point and had difficulty understanding her and I just didn't connect with her. I then had other matchmakers call me.

Finally, I had consistency with Debra and she and I definitely connected! She is down to earth and has been positive about the dating experience. Her best quality is that she listens and gets to know her people! I always enjoy talking to her and she calls to follow up after every date. She has also been available at hours that are helpful to me. She has made my IJL experience well worthwhile!

Length of Use: 2+ years

Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend

I have a great matchmaker – Shaun. He spends time listening to you and getting to know your personality. After one date, he is receptive to hearing all about my experience. He makes you feel very comfortable. Shaun is a great listener!

Length of Use: Less than 3 months

Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend

I signed up with this service just a few weeks ago having been out of the dating game for many years. My first contact was with Heather, who explained the program and got me started thinking about my dating priorities. Subsequently, I was assigned to work with Sarah, who has gotten me off to a great start in dating attractive eligible men in my area. From my first date, my criteria has been met and the experience has been easy, fun, and pleasant.

Length of Use: Less than 3 months

Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend

The liars just responded here. Even what they said here are lies, none of what they say is true. Just stay away and don't lose your money as I did.

Length of Use: 3–6 months

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

I would give no stars if I was able to post this review and not give a star (it is a requirement to be able to post). Horrible, horrible experience.

They lied about everything promised on their website and during the process tried to convince me to pay for membership. After I paid they kept trying to set me up with men older than the max age I requested, not from the religious background I requested, and these men also drink alcohol despite my specification of no consumption of alcohol regardless of amount, and from ethnic backgrounds I clearly stated I was not interested in.

After they got my money their attitude and how to speak over the phone changed and they were like robots repeating sentences and ignoring my concerns and questions of why what they are doing is different than what was agreed upon. I didn't go on any of the 3 dates they chose because of the issues I mentioned and I kept asking them to give me my money back since it became obvious they don't have potential matches within what I was promised to respect what I clearly specified I cannot accept to meet. I am filing a lawsuit for their scam and the distress they have caused me.

For all the people who got scammed too, I hope you don't let them get away with taking your hard-earned money and disrespecting your time.

Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend

The first thing I liked about IJL is that everyone is vetted. Your date is at a nice upscale location convenient to where you live or work. They listen to your feedback and improve upon your dating goals after each date. My experience with Kevin as a Dating Coach has been the best one I've ever had. He is quick to respond and selects the matches according to my criteria. Keep up the good work Kevin!

Length of Use: 2+ years

Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend

I have only had contact with It's Just Lunch for a couple of weeks. They are very professional and I hope through their services I can find a couple.

Length of Use: Less than 3 months

Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend