So many things started do not to add up... profiles that felt phony, supposedly huge numbers of members online at once, etc. One thing I do know, they're greedy for your money, like any dating website, having now made it impossible for Standard Members to see who has viewed their profiles and who has sent flirts - info which used to be easily accessible up to about a week ago. That's a greedy way to squeeze the subscription money out of Standard Members. Oh yeah - actually met two men on Farmers, both out of state, BOTH with SERIOUS mental problems - one was medicated, one was NOT. He could have been dangerous if crossed. Beware, trusting lady souls: there are flakes on this website like any other. Don't think country folk are any more angelic or less predatory than evil city slickers. They just don't spell as well!
Bottom Line: No, I would not recommend this to a friend