I get free therapy (not BetterHelp) through my employer but it has to be in person. They are part of a large network of providers and do a great job trying to find a local therapist for workers. I tried 12 on their list, I got 1 callback. The lady I did get to respond then often failed to show to our "online" appointments (in-person became online-only during Covid). This was a giant failure. I CHOOSE to pay for BetterHelp out of pocket because the experience is better.
I tried Talkspace (again, not BetterHelp) and it was fine. The 3 or 4 therapists I tried on there were generally unprofessional. One could not remember my name, started talking to me about symptoms I didn't have that turned out to be another client, all of this while he brewed coffee off camera. BetterHelp doesn't allow this.
I got a good therapist right off the bat, a match for what I needed. The worksheets, workbooks all good. I got homework, I got redirection and some hard talk when needed. It was not a fully passive therapist. There is some truth to "you get out what you put in," and no therapist will be able to help a person that isn't ready. But here, when I was ready I got help. Every single other option out there was a failure and BetterHelp was not.
P.S. The group therapy, they offer 1 session a week on top of anything you're dealing with 1-on-1. I think they're underutilized. The therapists should probably be assigning them. I found that most people show up 1 week, blow their misery wad on the group, and never come back. This is helpful sometimes, but it's probably not the purpose. For the ones that do show up multiple times I found that it was people that seemed to like the attention, it was like they were there to "hold court" instead of be part of a group dynamic. I'm not sure how to fix this. If memberships were slightly more mandatory vs. show as you like, I think the therapists leading the groups could accomplish more. Right now these are the big weakness.
Length of Use: 6–12 months
Bottom Line: Yes, I would recommend this to a friend
Pros and Cons
Good therapist match and it was quick
Multiple ways to communicate, including worksheets
Online – good option and gives nationwide reach
Strict cost plan, no tiered system – this was a plus of Talkspace
No "chat only" option for a lower cost, low commitment for new people trying to "dip their toes" into therapy
No option to pause – stop payment, lose therapist
No coverage on Anthem Blue Cross CA or through employer – push to partner with corporate giants